This article about the "generation gap". I`m going to write about misunderstanding between parents and adolescent, the reasons of the gap and the way of gap`s overcoming.
The young are better educated; they have more money to spend; they do not want to work and study; they didn`t want to help their parents: they do not seek responsibility; they want expansive clothes, cars, etc.without working for them; they are not so interested in important questions; avoid involvement; they have substandart appearance & shrill and resentful clothes.
The young should not work in oder to earn money for food. They have more money to spend and more time for enjoining their freedom and they are don`t so worried & tired as their parents. But they don`t have complete freedom from care and responsibility. They ought to learn and have constant fear of examinations and school reports. And every moment they make, every thought they think is observed by some critical adult who may draw unflattering conclusion about their character.
Parents have to choose everything for their children because adolescents have no good taste and complete-formed philosophy of life. Adults choose the clothes they children will wear, the books they will read and the friends they will play with. It seems that an adolescent does not has their own opinion, or if he does, nobody notices. Mather and father are kindly, but absolute dictators. But at the other hand, the younger generation grow up more quickly and not so dependent on their parents.
There are many reasons of this gap. For example, parents and children belong to different generations, different surroundings; younger generation existed in a different world; they are the product of a changing civilization; they have different standards, values, idols, manner of behavior and way of living, but parents even don`t try to understand them, that`s why there is a big generation gap.
I can propose the way of gap`s overcoming:
1.The young should be grateful to the older generation.
2.Don`t teach the younger generation how to live, don`t use violence to solve the problem of adolescents.
3.The old could learn something new, for instance New High Technologies in oder to better understand their children.
4.Old must understand that enjoyment is not "sinful".
5.The young should help their parents.
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